Sapphic Dating for Autistics and Neurodivergents
February 9th 5pm-7pm
$15 to sign up
For all those who identify as sapphic
Hosted by Rebecca, an Autistic Facilitator embracing her own stim needs. Autistics, NDs and those that love us are welcome. This event will be set up for the sensory sensitive.
This is a speed dating re-imagined: slower, sweeter, and intentionally designed for connection that feels real. You’ll be guided through short, heart-centered conversations that spark curiosity and chemistry. Think of it as a blend of flirty date night and a supportive community circle — a space where connection can overcome isolation
Schedule
- 5:00 PM — Check-in, order drinks and/or decompress from your day in quiet
- 5:30 PM — Doors close, no one may enter to create a safe container. Plan travel accordingly. Drink orders stop so we can stay present to each other.
- 5:30 PM — Opening circle & introductions
- 6:00 PM — Guided mini-conversations with rotating partners. Prompts are written down on paper for you, and read out loud. Eye contact is not necessary.
- 7:00 PM — Event ends, stay as long as you like for dinner (limited food menu*) and lingering connection
Sensory-Friendly Space
- We will be in a private room with doors open for fresh air
- No overhead music, the club will be closed
- Scent-free (please avoid perfumes & essential oils)
- Bring noise-canceling headphones, earbuds, or stim toys if helpful
- Leave and take breaks whenever you need to
Your comfort comes first — do what feels good, wear what feels good, BE YOU!
PARKING: There are metered spots on the street and neighborhood parking behind the building and surrounding areas.
Please do not attend if you feel sick or display symptoms of illness.
*Limited food and drinks menu will be Buy One, Get A Token for the Next on all beers, seltzers, well drinks (excludes CBD seltzers)